San Diego Sexologists
Helping you with your intimate needs
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Love and Intimacy Coaching
Trouble in the bedroom? Confused about your sexual preference or identity? Difficulties communicating your needs and wants with your partner? Curious about expanding your sexual horizon? Do you keep attracting or getting attracted to the "wrong" kind of people? You just want to make sure that you are sexually compatible before committing big time? Did you or your partner have an affair?

Whatever it is, if it is related to sex, love, relationship, or intimacy, we can most likely help you! But, first, you need to really want growth or be willing to change. 

Our Coaching sessions are client focused, goal oriented, and dynamic in nature. That means, instead of relying on diagnosis and prescription, we help our clients regain their inner wisdom and their unique sexual power via conversation, information giving, forgiving and letting go, and home assignments. 

Trained as Sexologists (not as Sex Therapists), we pride ourselves on non-judgmental, non-blaming, non-victimizing approach. Because we provide Sex Coaching, not Sex Therapy, our goal is to encourage you and guide you to where you want to go, not to dwell on where you have been. For this reason, you can expect much quicker results than therapy, however, if you are not ready to be honest, own your behavior or belief system and change your current way, you will not benefit from our services. 

We mostly work with clients face to face, however, we do offer over the phone coaching and email consultations for our long distance clients. 

So, are you ready? We understand that it might be scary to jump in. Please remember, we have heard and seen it all, so you cannot shock us. 

Imagine your life filled with love, intimacy, and satisfactory sexual pleasure and energy. Please give us a call or email us to schedule your initial session. 


Call:  858-337-0046
Email:  info@sdsexologists.com
" Nick and Sayaka helped me get over my past trauma and moved me into healthy expression of my sexuality. Thank you!!"

"I had a coaching session with Sayaka to brush up my intimacy skills to be with a man since it's been so long! I had a really educational session filled with detailed description (and of course, we laughed a lot!), and my first intimate encounter with a man in a few years went really smoothly and sensually."

"My wife and I love each other dearly, but our sexuality was always our problem area. Nick and Sayaka gave us great ideas, interesting homework, and no-bull**** but kind way of confronting us with our crap, and now, we are happier than ever!"

"Nick and Sayaka helped me realize that I am OK..well, more than OK...I am me, and I am happy with myself and my sexuality! Thank you so much!"

"My husband had an affair and I was desperate.  I thought the only way was divorce.  We have 2 children, substantial assets and social status, so he begged for another chance. Nick and Sayaka showed us the importance of love, the resiliency, and to our complete surprise, our love is stronger than ever and we are happier than ever.  I now know that an affair is not a death sentence, only a beginning of more honesty and authentic love.  We will forever be grateful."

"How can I thank you??  You helped me have my first orgasm!!!  Thank you so much for getting me back in touch with my body and soul...  You are amazing."

"My partner and I came to see Nick and Sayaka because we were curious about the Lifestyle.  They guided us step by step, giving us necessary information before jumping in.  Because of that, our relationship is stronger than ever, and we are also fully enjoying the Lifestyle.  We are so glad we came to see you."

"I was recommended to come see Nick and Sayaka by my psychologist. I honestly didn't know what was ahead of me!  I have never felt this alive before.  Each session brought me new awareness, new idea, new insight and deeper appreciation for who I am.  I feel so confident and so happy!!  Who knew my life can change so dramatically in just 5 sessions?"

"Right after I saw you, I found the love of my life!  Are you guys magicians for something?"
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